Blogmas Day 13: 12 Days of Self-Care

I have always believed that self-care is very important! I try to do a little self-care everyday, but sometimes I fall behind on taking care my myself. For blogmas, I wanted to do a little 12 days of self-care where I do one (or more) type of self-care for 12 days! I’ve made a list that is in no certain order, and if you want to mix and match you can!!

  1. Take time to journal
  2. Meditate
  3. Clean your space
  4. Move your body
  5. Do something creative
  6. Skincare routine
  7. Take care of your body
  8. Declutter a small area
  9. Throw your worries away
  10. Unplug from electronics
  11. Write tomorrow’s to do list
  12. Tell your friends how much you love & appreciate them

Take time to journal

My journaling in December might look a little different than normal. In December and January I want to think about what and how I want to change in the new year. Some prompts I am asking myself include:

  • What am I letting go of?
  • What habits do I want going into 2026?
  • What am I manifesting in 2026?

Meditate

I used to meditate often in college. I did it after my yoga classes, but I really started doing it after I started taking a meditation class my last year of school. I have since fallen off the wagon, but I want to get back into it. Why?

  • It helps my thoughts not be so crazy all the time.
  • It makes me appreciate the stillness.
  • It helps me relax.

Clean your space

Almost nothing irritates me more than a messy space. To me, a messy space makes a messy mind. Here lately I have been trying to tidy my space even if it’s just for 10 minutes.

Do something creative

I think we take in too much creative content instead of making creative content. I know I sure do. This is part of why I am pushing myself this month to read more, post Vlogmas and post blogmas too! I have missed several days, but I am going to keep going instead of giving up. Here’s some creative ideas.

  • Start writing a book
  • Film, edit & post on YouTube or tik tok
  • Write and publish a blog!
  • Color / paint / draw
  • Craft / DIY something

Skincare routine

Since starting Vlogmas on YouTube, I have been a lot better about doing my basic nighttime skin routine! I have also been trying to sometimes incorporate some other things like my red light therapy face mask, a regular face mask, gua sha stone and using sugar scrub (especially on my hands).

Take care of your body

I’ve been trying to take care of my body more by drinking more water, eating more fruits and veggies, and just knowing when to REST.

Declutter a small area

I don’t know about you, but I have wayyyy too much stuff. In November, I’ve started decluttering things I don’t need, and I have actually gotten rid of a lot more things than I thought I would!

Throw your worries away

I seen this online, and I want to try it! You write down on a piece of paper everything that you are worried about and then you literally throw it away.

Unplug from electronics

I definitely need to do this!! Even just for 30 minutes. I need to sit down under a cozy blanket with a warm drink and just chill. No tv. No phone. No kindle. Just chill.

Write tomorrow’s to do list

Write down everything you want to do the next day so that’s one thing you don’t have to worry about when you get up!

Tell your friends how much you love & appreciate them

Sometimes I forget to let the people I care about know that I do care about them.

What are some self-care acts you implement in your life?

Blogmas Day 7: my two year anniversary with the love of my life

December 7th. Two whole years with the love of my life.

First coworkers. Then friends (on my end anyway, he always wanted more). And then lovers.

The night that really started our friendship was the night at work he accidentally cut his hand, and I went and took him a bandaid because we had run out at the cafe. While I bandaged him up, I realized how INTOXICATED the other cook was! At the time, he was just on the fryers, but because of the situation he was having to do both. I ended up staying the whole night and helping him where I could.

After that, we had several late nights at his house, watching movies in his bed (as just friends).

Due to a thing with his roommate (who I worked with), he ended up moving out… And in with me and my mom.

We thought it was a short-term thing… it was not.

A month or so later, we officially started dating, and he did not move out of my mom’s house until WE moved out in January of this year.

I am happy to have met Cody 2+ years ago. Our relationship is not perfect. WE are not perfect. But I wouldn’t want to learn life with anyone else. We have both grown as people.

We had such a good 2 year anniversary. I wanted it to be lowkey, and it was such a good day. We went and ate at a new place — a steak & sushi restaurant. Cody HATED it (he picked it), but he was a good sport about it. Afterward, we went and seen Zootopia 2 in theaters. It was SO GOOD. Cody and I both really loved the first one, and we loved the second one too.

After the movie, we went home and played a couple games together of Fortnite and ate eggos with chocolate syrup on them.

A very happy day with someone I want to spend the rest of my days with.

Cody, thank you for putting up with my craziness. I love you very much.

I am also doing Vlogmas, and here is from the day of our date.

Vlogmas Day 9 on YouTube | 2 year anniversary date

Blogmas Day 6: Holiday Playlist

10 songs I must have on my Christmas playlist:

  1. Last Christmas by Wham!
  2. I’ll Be Home For Christmas by Doris Day
  3. It’s Beginning to Look a Lot Like Christmas by Johnny Mathis
  4. All I Want For Christmas is You by Mariah Carrey
  5. It’s the Most Wonderful Time of Year by Andy Williams
  6. Let It Snow! Let It Snow! Let It Snow! by Dean Martin
  7. Santa Claus is Coming to Town by The Crystals
  8. Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas by Norah Jones
  9. Rudolph the Red-nosed Reindeer by Gene Autry
  10. A Holly Jolly Christmas by Burl Ives

What are some of your must have Christmas songs on your playlist?

December goals

I am a week late in posting my December goals, but better late than never, right? I have made up 5 goals/things I want to focus on this month.

VLOGMAS

I believe this is my 3rd year doing vlogmas. Last year I did it all the way through, and I plan on it this year as well. While there could be pressure to post 25 days in a roll, at the same time, I don’t feel so much pressure in making sure everything is perfect… Not that I really do with regular content. It’s just my regular day-to-day things with some Christmas things sprinkled in.

CHRISTMAS PRESENTS

CHRISTMAS IS LESS THAN 3 WEEKS AWAY, AND I HAVEN’T BOUGHT ANYONE PRESENTS. I’m panicking just a little bit. I have decided this year to get everyone a small gift just because I have so many to buy, but it’s still the principle of making sure I get everyone’s gifts.

CHRISTMAS ACTIVITIES

Christmas is probably my favorite time of year. My favorite thing to do is to go see Christmas lights. I also still love to take a picture with Santa if there is an opportunity. I did it for the first time last year or the year before for the first time in years, and it made my day! Sometimes it’s nice to feel like a kid again. This year I hope to make some Christmas cookies and read some romance books based around Christmas time.

BLOGGING

I keep failing to get better at blogging, but I am going to keep trying! I’m one of those people who just have a really hard time sitting down and starting something because if I can just start then I can finish it. For instance, I have put off this blog post for a whole week, but now that I’ve finally started it, I am going to post it the same day. My goal for this month is to publish at least 12 blog posts! This one is number one.

WRITING

I had the goal at the beginning of the year to already be done with this book I want to publish, but I have barely even started it. I’ve restarted it so many times (one of those times this month) so that is why there’s not much progress. I hope now I am at a place that I can continue forward with my writing. I hope to be mostly done with my first draft by my 26th birthday next year (so roughly 9 months).

These are my 5 goals for the month of December. At the end, I will, hopefully, post an update about them. Do you have any goals/things you want to accomplish this month? What are they?

Blogmas post ideas

It is day 2 of blogmas (and vlogmas)!! I am super excited to do it this year. I decided to make a list of possible blogmas post ideas because I know I am always looking up this exact thing.

  1. Blogmas post ideas
  2. Christmas tree reveal
  3. Christmas traditions
  4. Holiday bucket list
  5. How to deal with holiday stress
  6. Winter morning/night routine
  7. 12 things I learned this year
  8. Favorite books I read this year
  9. Favorite Christmas songs
  10. Favorite Christmas movies
  11. Favorite Christmas food/drinks
  12. Secret Santa ideas
  13. Favorite winter outfits
  14. Christmas tbr
  15. My perfect Christmas would be…
  16. Christmas wish list
  17. Holiday in photos
  18. Winter skin routine
  19. Stocking filler ideas
  20. Christmas tag
  21. Christmas playlist
  22. Favorite youtuber’s vlogmas
  23. How to volunteer/donate during Christmas
  24. What I got others for Christmas
  25. What I got for Christmas

December goals

Hello everyone! It has been a while since I have posted on here. I’ve mostly been on Tumblr BUT for this December, I have decided to do blogmas!! I don’t know if there are official rules for blogmas, like having to only post Christmas things, but I am not going to do that. I am, however, going to post for at least 25 days in a roll. With that being said, it is only write to start out with my December goals. The last monthly goals for this year.

  • Do at least 2 weeks of vlogmas (click here for YouTube channel)
  • Do at least 2 weeks of blogmas
  • Finish reading 4 books to meet Goodreads goal (click here)
  • Write 2 chapters for book
  • Practice self-care each week
  • Meditate more
  • Buy Christmas gifts
  • Donate
  • Make New Year Resolutions
  • Celebrate Christmas
  • Eat Christmas cookies
  • Reorganize house / declutter
  • Plan ways to help mental health
  • Manage all social media
  • Complete booty and ab challenge

December Goals [2020]

My wish for December is that I complete all my goals, and I stay in the creative mood! Here are my goals for December:

December goals

  • Be more organized
  • Get rid of what I don’t use
  • Volunteer 4 times
  • Job search
  • Christmas shopping
  • Film/upload 2 YouTube videos
  • Upload blogs (1 a week)
  • Save $300
  • Read 2 books
  • Workout (at least) 3X a week
  • Finish a TV show
  • Work on book
  • Practice self-care weekly
  • Make Tik Tok videos
  • Do vlogmas